Would do I say to my leo friend, who is really frusterating to organise things with? (im a cancer)?

Maybe, like,'I wanted to hang out with you today. But you didn't txt back until 1 when we planned to do this at 11. I understand your situation. But do you understand mine? You left me hanging, then you bailed, now you want me to be easygoing about this? I'm not your doormat